Exercise Is A Lot Like Dating

Exercise can be a lot like dating.  

You try a few different versions out.  Some are pretty good and you and stick with them for a while but you maybe get bored or you just stop clicking.  Others are just ok but don't get you too excited.  A few are just terrible and you would be ok if you never tried them again. 

Then... then you find that perfect match.  You are committed!  You enjoy your time when you are doing that exercise or with that special person.  Yeah it is still work and you have to put effort into it daily but it is something you usually look forward to coming back to the next day.  Not always.  Let's be honest, we all have days don't want to workout or you don't want to put effort into your relationship.  When you are with the right person, or doing your soulmate workout those periods pass quickly.  

We just celebrated our 9 year anniversary this week.  What a blessing the past 9 years have been for both of us.   It was almost 11 years ago that we found each other and haven't looked back!  

Nine Years in the Books

All of those 11 years we've been active, playing volleyball, running, going to the gym.  It's was about 6 years ago though that Laura found her soulmate workout, Insanity!  For me it was Focus T25 and later P90X3.  Pretty much the perfect workout for us was one that we could do in the comfort of our own home or just outside our RV!   We have been able to stay consistent and show up nearly everyday for our workouts.  

All from working out at home

That just didn't happen for us elsewhere...

For us the gym was like that person that you are attracted to physically but just don't connect with emotionally or mentally.   We tried going and had gym memberships for years but never really accomplished anything.  

We also both dabbled with running!  I was a former cross country runner and Laura ran track.  After we graduated from college running became like that blind date that your friend set you up on.  You know it's going to be awkward and painful.  No thank you!!!

We never did try Crossfit but I could imagine that would be like taking your date out to the most expensive restaurant in town.  Then after dinner your date takes you to a big orgy where limbs and sweat are flying everywhere.  People are comparing themselves to others and walking around slapping each other on the butt!  Sorry crossfitters it's the best comparison I could come up with, I think I would actually join a crossfit gym if it was right next to my house and I had some more cash!  ​

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Don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with those kinds of workouts.  We know a lot of people that have had a lot of success at the gym or running!  They have stayed consistent and continue to put the work in and show up everyday.  They've seen results and that's what it is all about.  

​Fitness for us looked a little different and that has worked incredibly well for us.  I believe there is a soulmate workout and form of exercise out there for everyone.  Maybe it's dancing, maybe it's powerlifting, or maybe it's running.  If you've tried a bunch of workouts that just don't click, don't give up, just keep trying! 

I will say one other thing though that the environment (people and place) plays a big role. 

• Maybe you like going to the gym but the one you go to has a bunch of douchey bodybuilders that are grunting all the time flexing in the mirror more than they are working out.  Don't give up on gym, just find another one with different people. 
• Maybe you like yoga but hate doing it around other people for fear of letting out a loud fart, maybe you need to try doing it at home. 
• Maybe you love the community of your crossfit gym but hate having to drive to workout, maybe you need to find a way to have a community around you yet can still workout from home.  

​We would love to know what you've found to be your soulmate workout!  If you haven't found one, let us know if we can help you find it!